I'm not a fan of deferring for the sake of it [OOC: fckyeah, he isn't.:)) ], but I am one of kindness and learning.

Would you teach me how to pour in the proper manner [ He pauses. She'd just said she enjoyed it, but he never felt right about any service being done for him. He never liked the feeling of having people do for him things which he could do for himself. He weighs his next words and hopes she takes them as they are. Kindness. ], and if you let me, I could pour for you while you pour for me.

I... just don't feel right being served by others.